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Alexina Sophia Gallot
Alexina was born in 1821in Surry,
England to John and Ann Elizabeth Gallott.
During her teenage years Alexina met Robert Henry
Herbert, the 12th Earl of Pembroke and 9th Earl of Montgomery, and went to
live with him in Paris. Robert was still married to Princess Octavia
Spinelli of Sicilly, so the two never married. By 1852 they had 3
young sons. Robert fell ill and during the lengthy illness his
brother, Sidney, took care of him and lectured him on his irregular life.
Robert recovered but had no intention of discarding his mistress, and three
years later a little girl was born. As the children were illegitimate, his
heir was Sidney who, after being made Baron Herbert of Lea, died in 1861.
When Robert died in Paris in 1862, it was Sidney's son who became the next
Earl of Pembroke and Montgomery.
In the 1881 census Sophia (the name
she was using at the time) is listed as living at 2 Chester Ter London,
England as a visitor in the home of James D. Cowan.
More on
Robert Henry Herbert, 12th Earl of Pembroke,
9th Earl of Montgomery, (1791-1862)
Born 19 September 1791 London, Hill Str.
Died 25 April 1862
Paris
Buried Paris, Pere-la-Chaise
Married 17 August 1814 Butera Palace,
Palermo
Princess Octavia Spinelli
(Died 1857)
Early in 1814
he went on holiday to Sicily where he was introduced to Prince and Princess
Buttera de Rubari. The princess, Octavia Spinelli, much younger than her
husband but also much older than Robert, was soon rumoured to be his
mistress. Also according to rumour, she had extracted a promise that Lord
Herbert would marry her when her elderly husband died. The rumour reached
England and, when the Prince died in June 1814, Robert's father, the Earl of
Pembroke, hurried over but arrived one day after a clandestine marriage had
already taken place. The Sicilian laws required three previous proclamations
and, as the marriage had taken place without the benediction of a priest,
the marriage was regarded illicit, rendering both parties liable with
imprisonment, the groom in a fortress and the bride in a convent.
However, these
laws were hardly ever enforced; but when the enraged Lord Pembroke applied
to the Sicilian Government to prevent any further form of marriage, a decree
was issued to enforce the punishments. The Government showed their distaste
for the matter by giving Robert the opportunity to escape; but as he
declined this chance, on 21 August 1814 both Robert and Octavia were
arrested. A few months in prison cooled Robert's ardour and, when offered a
second chance, he took it and, in December 1814, was back in England. Soon
Octavia was released on bail and made her way to
London, where she took a house and styled herself Lady Herbert. She started
Court proceedings to have her conjugal rights restored but achieved little
else but having their marriage declared to be valid. Sicilian laws prevented
her from taking her dower out of the Country, while at the same time Lord
Herbert was described as "with a wife and no
wife".
In October
1827 his father died and Robert became 12th Earl of Pembroke and 9th Earl of
Montgomery. It seems that Octavia had returned to Sicily and, having
declared never to make his home in England, Robert left for Paris, taking
with him the choicest pieces of French furniture. In 1832 when Sidney, his
half-brother, came of age, assuming responsibility for the maintenance of
the great house and estate of Wilton.
In 1852 Sidney
was summoned to Paris to visit the dangerously ill Robert. However, he also
found Robert's mistress, Alexina Sophia Gallot, and their three little boys.
During the lengthy illness Sidney took care of Robert and lectured him on
his irregular life. Robert recovered but had no intention of discarding his
mistress, and three years later a little girl was born. As Robert had no
legitimate children, his heir was Sidney who, after being made Baron Herbert
of Lea, died in 1861. When Robert died in Paris in 1862, it was Sidney's son
who became the next Earl of Pembroke and Montgomery. |